Why does he watch porn?

Your boyfriend may have been watching pron for years.  As a result, he has received alters.  Alters are demons.  These have to be cast out.  He has to be willing to let go of them.  Then, you have to seek the help of a Deliverance Minister to do this because it requires someone who is a Christian but is not afraid of demons.  Most Christians don't believe that they can have demons and don't manage their own.  Any true Christian can cast them out but most don't and won't.  You need to find a Deliverance Minister. Also, if they are cast out, he may go back to it and receive seven more demons.  If you are a Christian, you can cast them out in the Name of Jesus.  Beware of him regressing back to it and having more of a problem.  Because of this it my be better to leave him alone, especially if he is not a Christian.  He will not be able to keep them out if he is not a Christian.  So, I suggest you find a Minister who does work with this kind of case.  God Bless you.

The reason many men watch pornography is that their sex life at home is boring, the wife is frigid or unenthusiastic, or that the spark has gone out of your marriage.  The solution is to put that needed romantic spark back in your marriage.

There is no way a demon could leap out of a monitor and possess a viewer.  However, a boring marital relationship is a certain way to assure that he takes prurient delight in other women.

The solution is to get over your hangups, Kylesbaby.  If he wants to watch pretty girls on a TV monitor, watch with him.  What she does on screen, do it better.  Be the sparkling lover you were when you met, and rest assured, you will enjoy it far more than he.

If that seems like a second honeymoon, then have it at home.  As soon as he is back from work, the kids are off doing what they should be doing, grab him by the shirt, drag him to the bathroom, bring out a bar of soap, a smile and a giggle, then let nature take its beneficial and remedial course.

Honey, if you don't, then don't blame him for finding someone else, who will do that for him.

Everyone doesn't do it and who cares if they do , you are not in an relatiosnhip with everyone , just him .  His answer is inmature .  Fact is it is causing problems in your relationship and those problems need to be addressed .  Perhaps outside counseling would be of benefit to both of you .  If your boyfriend loves you as he should then he will be willing to find a solution with you .  It is no longer just about porn , it is about him not taking your feelings in to consideration not placing value on your opinion . This is unacceptable in a loving relationship .  It seems that you two have different morals and values .  Perhaps it is time for you to take a look at this guy ,he does not respect or value your feelings and is not being willing to work through problems with you .  That is the bigger issue and will cause other problems if you choose to stay with him . 

If your BF wanted you to stop going to Church would you do it for him? If he said he and his friends don't do it would that make it better? If you don't like what he does then you need to move on because if he say's he will quit then he will do it behind your back. because he dosen't see anything wrong with it.

You have to realize that, for men, masturbation is a pleasure separate from sex, and that we enjoy masturbating, even if we're very happily married. We also enjoy looking at naked beautiful women.

If your boyfriend only watched porn recreationally, there's no real problem. However, if he is addicted to porn, that can be a big problem. That's a whole other issue that really has nothing to do with simple pleasure and enjoyment. I enjoy porn myself, but it's not something I need for my life to be happy. It's when it becomes a need that it presents a problem.

Equus does have a point and that your boyfriend is not respecting how you feel about the issue although I also want to agree to what bonestructure mentioned but since its something that's bothering you, your BF should take action or you need to settle on a compromise.

Hi,

   I totally agree with Equus.  Your boyfriend does not respect you and your feelings about it.  If I were you, I would find someone who does not have that bad habit.  You don't share the same values.  Move on and don't make your life miserable by being with a man like that.