i have a boyfriend and every time we see his father, his father constantly puts people down and call people names laughing and thinking it is funny when he hurts peoples feelings. nobody would tell him to quit it because he is proud to be an "asshole" (thats what he calls himself with extream pride). if he hurts someones feelings and they cry, which some have, he sits there constantly calls them names and doesn't feel shame at all. also nobody can have a conversation with him because anything you try to talk to him about, he hates it. you try talking about movies, music, food, it doesn't matter, he hates everything. he constantly says, "oh, i hate that," or "thats gay" or "thats retarded" or "thats stupid". he doesn't mention what he likes at all. everytime i have ever talked to him, he has knocked me down.i was talking about taking classes in psychology and he said,"all psychologist think they know what they're talking about, they're all frauds." i said i wanted to go to church he says, 'theres no god.' I remember i wanted to join choir and he said, "you cant sing." and hes never heard me. my boyfriends father drinks all day,every day, but his family says he don't even get drunk, its like drinking pop. since i met my boyfriends dad, my spirit has been crushed and i was once a happy optimistic person, and ever since i met this man i have lost that person i once was, i want her back badly, this man made me doubt myself, and crushed and my feelings.i don't know how to tell my boyfriend i dont want to be around his dad.
