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I am 18 years old and female... I have been for ...

I am 18 years old and female... I have been for the past year or two beginning to realize that i have feelings and attractions to the same sex... thus making me a lesbian.. but i can't get over that hump of accepting who I am and that I am attracted to women and although I have absolutley no problem what so ever with other people that are gay/lesbian.. I have trouble identifying myself as that... I am looking for any and all advice that anyone has on my problem Thanks in advance


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It's not the mountain we conquer... but ourselves

I think that you are in a period now where you are just finding yourself. I think that being 18, and being able to go to college and get away from the same people that you've known for so long, also getting away from your parents, may really help. If you can just let go and be yourself without feeling like you are judged, I think that you will be able to find yourself. Then you will be able to tell the ones you love who you are.

Posted 2009-08-19T13:59:07Z
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I suspect your problem could be the fact that when you were young, your circle of friends could probably be of the same gender. During that period ot time growing up, your thoughts and perception of people could be centralised on only one gender. Mix around, give yourself ample room to rediscover your sexuality, your alignment to the opposite sex and try to derive fulfilment to your life. Refocus your desires and explore your needs and see if there's any change in your behaviour. Give yourself time to adapt.
Posted 2009-08-22T07:55:36Z
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