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I am a newly married women (1.5 years) during my ...

i am a newly married women (1.5 years) during my married life i realised that my husband doesnt make love at all and lacks interest in sex. Initially i couldnt understand much and struggled a lot but i often feel arosed. now i want to reduce my sexual desire so that i can balance my relation, please help.

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Posted 2009-10-27T07:50:02Z
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Hello,

Reducing your desire is not the answer to the problem but rather you should be looking at increasing your husbands desire which could well be low due to self esteem issues. Please read about Low self esteem in men and maybe you will find the answers you need.

Posted 2009-10-27T14:46:55Z

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Man you got yourself in a bad situation. If he can't understand your needs then you will have problems you need to address. How will you achive pleasure thru your life and stay married? You can take a lover or self pleasure yourself or fight these urges and learn to do without like a nun. I think I would get this guy in therapy.

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Tiasha, you didn't mention his age and overall physical condition, which can be factors in sexual performance. Low self esteem is a possibility but my experience is that younger guys don't usually have this problem. Is it possible that he has the desire but that's been overcome by a physical problem you are unaware of? If this is the right guy for all other reasons my advice is to stay with him and work on solving the problem. You've had three alternatives suggested (masturbation, taking a lover and reducing your desire) and my advice is masturbation. Taking a lover (unless he knows and approves) isn't a good idea and a healthy sex like is a natural body function so reducing your desire is in natural and should be avoided. This leaves masturbation so do it as often as you feel the need and seek a solution to his problem.

Posted 2009-11-04T11:41:53Z

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