Scott, if you have to ask then the answer has to be "YES"!
C'mon man, children do not want sex with adults. They want the love and protection that adults can provide and as their parents this is our duty.
You could scar your beautiful little girl for life with unwanted sexual advances. She looks to you for love and protection. She should not have to suffer because you have confused love and lust in your own mind.
Love has no strings. Love does not require that you do anything to receive it. True love for your child is given no matter what and regardless of everything.
Yes, you are a pedophile because you have confused love and sex...and sex with children is never right because it is a crucial part of their lives that you are taking away before they even understand what love and sex mean.
If you molest your child...she will wander about her entire life looking for that same 'love' you gave her and of course she will only find it in another pedophile to which she will have to become an accomplice. Is that the life you want for her?
Children should always be allowed to chose their own sexuality at the proper time...and that proper time is never with an adult as the instigator.
Get that book, man, MIDDAT SDOM , I read it and it clarified a lot of things for me...maybe it can help you too.
God Speed, man...cause I see the demons are closing in on you...rapido...