Is she saying she wants to be more than friends? After college…I crushed on my best friend since high school told her about my feelings, she told me she see me as a friend. Through the years she been flirty and too close to me as in leaning and touchy feely that confuses me of thinking she might like me. I ask her to stop and now she tells me she has unsure feelings for me. She emailed me back after the email I sent her asking what her unsure feelings meant. her email>>
"Ok first off, yes I may be bi curious seeing as I am attracted
To of both sexes or may be its just envy.... regardless though,
I do not want to be in a relationship now. It has nothing to do with
fear. It’s just me wanting to finish school with nothing making my life
harder than it already is. At the moment I have way to much stress in
my life to add a relationship into it. And as for your freak out
thing, I ‘ve told you before, I don’t mind that you like me in the way.
I ‘m just not ready yet. I still see you as a friend. And as for the
attention thing, I have always been clingy; I’m now just starting to see
just how clingy I can become at times. As for not answering you for a
long time, I was thinking things over trying to figure stuff out and
what not."
What does this mean to you?
I am bi sexual, crushed on her for 8 years I known her for 10 years. I live 2 hours away from her.
she told me she see me romanically and as a friend. she not sure. so i am just going to let her find out on her self. i am not going to push her to come to me. and i want to know what she meant when she said "I don’t mind that you like me in the way.I ‘m just not ready yet. "
we are still friends we text each other and will hang out in october. (i live 2 hours away from her)