No rude answers. I report abusive answers. I wrote this letter to my mom to get closure

A mother and daughter relationship is not always easy to acquire. There are moments where your anger and frustration can get in the way of understanding and respecting each other. Don’t let your emotions get in the way of your mother daughter relationship.
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Improving your relationship as mother daughter can be for the best. If you are not having difficulties with your mother daughter relationship, there is always room for improvement.

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  Step 2
  Resolving Conflict:
  Arguments between mother and daughter can be stressful, and can last fore a long time. Resolving the conflict can be just as tough as when you began the argument. Instead of waiting for one another to apologize, compromise. If you find it hard to talk, write. Explain your reasons to your argument and give each other a copy. Read over the reason out loud. After you both have read the others reasoning write down ways on how it can be corrected without confrontation. If this method does not work invite a third party as a mediator.
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  Dinner Dates:
  Take time out of the week to spend with your mother or daughter. Have alone time where you can discuss personal and non-personal issues. This will strengthen and improve your mother daughter relationship. As well as give you a break from your everyday issues.
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  Shopping:
  Take one another to the grocery store or shopping plaza to talk and purchase items for yourselves or others. Being able to share time with one another can reduce stress or worries about any type of situation you may have or are worried about having.
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  Step 5
  Either way, talking and spending more time with each other will improve and strengthen any relationship whether it be mother and daughter, or father and son. Communication and interaction will talk your relationship to the next level.

Voterperson, when I suggested in your last thread,(which was by the way THE SAME  EXACT QUESTION, with  over 5 pages of answers,) that you start a new thread, I meant with a Different Question.  You've got over 100 posts so far on  your  clothes,and how you look in them. is this all that matters to you????? You're 53 years old, are you ever going to stop this nonsense.  I'm reporting this post as being mentally abusive to me, since your posts are driving me bananas.)

URI, your post made me giggle. And I absolutely agree, by the way. But I suspect Voterperson is so lonely, she's trying to make us all as loopy as she is.

Bananas. Nuts. Fruitcakes. Cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs. A few sandwiches short of a picnic. One brick shy of a load.

What's that? This post is abusive? LALALALALA, I can't heeeaaar you! All of my extra clothes fell out of their bags and I'm buried underneath a pile of thrift store socks.

Voterperson, if you want to mail this letter to your mom, you go right ahead and do it. But I have to tell you, it's not going to change a damn thing.

Your mom has a right to her opinions. So do we, for that matter.

URI, how's this for fashionable?

JKGrandma, fabulous video for this thread.  The models are SOOOO thin, I think they must wear a size 2, or 4, or 6, or 8.  What do you think? And, do you think Barby's thin?  Isn't Barby about 53 now?  And how do you think the plastic doll looks in her plastic clothes?  Doesn't have both oars in the water--Light are on, but there's nobody home. 

VP, as long as you post on Yedda, all are free to answer.  If you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen.  I don't consider you a rational person--do you realize that the question in this post is the same exact one you asked in your last one?  Five pages of answers were not enough for you simply because no one took your side?  Do you have obsessions?  YES- your clothes and how you look in them, and yet how many people actually care how you look  Wake up--there are major problems in the world. Yes, I think you are having problems with your mom, but I think many of them are your fault. Do you think maybe your mom is right about your clothes and how you look?  Maybe if you listened to her, your interviews would go better and you would be able to get a job.  That way, you'll have  more money to buy some more clothes and socks and underwear.

OOPS, JK, I probably just got reported again.

Various, a tad harsh, BUT you have VP down to a tee.   You must have read all of her 150+ posts. Thumbs up!  And, American Patriot, the answer might seem rude to you, but it is all true, as you'll see when you read her past posts.  This 53 year old acts like a teen ager obsessed with her clothes and how she looks.  She has problems with her 83 year old mom, but if I were her mom, I would move out and not give her my phone # or address. 

VP, you are one sharp cookie. You have succeded in taking a perfectly mundane subject (Thrift Store clothing), mixing it in with a couple of family relationships, and used some creative writing techniques to develop a captive audience, which grows by leaps and bounds every time you post a new scenario. I've just finished this relatively brief (so far) posting and I see you've now collected Various and MF, who's an authouity on absolutely everything. Boy is he/she ever in for a suprise.

You must be enjoying yourself and you probably lay awake at night thinking of the next clothing adventure and our collective reactions to it. I've skimmed Yedda and several other sites and you're getting more time and attention than (ready for this) social security, the current health care program, Ted Kennedy's death, JFK's assassination, UFO's, Obama's job performance, world hunger, the NFL season, Tiger Wood's, group sex (now how bad is that???) and other subjects to numerous to mention.

I actually left my computer for a day and what a mistake that was. In the 24 hours I was gone you posted your latest scenario and by the time I returned there were 20+ replies plus comments from all the usual suspects and I'm still working my way thru them. It's not easy but I'll get there.

Now that you've read my preamble here's the answers to your questions;

"So should I go over all my things because of my moms comments or should I just ignore what she said and wear it. You cannot see it if you are wearing it."

First of all, send the letter. I know you'll want our feedback and just thinking of her reaction, the drama it's going to create, and how many wonderful posts you'll write to discuss this with us, is something i can look forward to. Secondly, pull out every article of clothing and examine it in fine detail to ensure yourself that you'll have an answer (no matter how unacceptable it will be) to your mother the next time you wear it. Thirdly, under no circumstances ignore her comments. If you did that, one of your main theme's for writing would dry up and then what would we do??? Personally, I couldn't stand it because I might actually have to do some work here instead of participating in this great clothing adventure with you ladies and ... well,  I COULDN'T STAND IT! I'm also seriously considering recommending a dress code here. Some of my coworkers are looking too good, which is ok for the ladies, but frankly, I'm a little jealous of some of these guys and the good looking stuff they're wearing. They must be shopping at that #$%x*^%$# thrift store.