"i have problem making decisions and affraid to makechages or start new things" - so do the rest of the population at some point in their lives.
"I get confuse" - you're not alone there.
"alot or scare" - like most of us.
"I dont know" - none of us do really.
"please help" - good for you for asking!
"I want to change my life.,then change it - right now but i dont see an exit..don't look for one, you'll never find it all though, i know ther e is one always is and where to find it." - as always, right under your nose but of course we're too busy searching, seeking, analyzing, pulling apart that we end up missing it altogether. And eventually fall off the track.
1. Talk about it. (specifically to get it out not necessarily to accept whats coming back as golden knowledge)
2. Read some books. (Do you read?)
3. You only have to focus on the "right now", present time, at this very moment, this very second. The next few seconds will of course come, followed by the next minute, hour, day, week and so forth. But right now, only this second counts.
These are 3 very random recommendations that I have "actually" read and it certainly brought about a new light on things in my environment.
The Journey by Brandon Bays, was given to me by a friend who obviously noticed a few things on the quiet side.
The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, I bought myself after the big global hype. Had to see what it was all about. Glad I did.
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R.Covey, my "boss" gave me a copy of this book - random huh, but I tell you what I got so much out of it I sent Mr Covey an email. Guess what?... he sent two autograhed copies with a personal inscription on the inside cover, wow! I knew then progress within my mind had certainly upscaled incredibly.
Finally... Don't Give Up!
Cheers,
Mr J
