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hi, i love a man that i have known by an msn chat , we have been talking for two years ,we start to love each other last few months , I know everything about him and he does too about me we have the same religion and the same culture but he lives in other country .we have decided to make our relationship more officially so we are going to see each other so our relationship will not be by chat room anymore and then get married. the problem that i am so worried and thinking all the time that if he is not the right man and that we might not live happy together why, i do not know!! and that if i wait  and  leave him i might got better man or i might stop loving him , there is other men i like and might be better than him in some things , i am always worried that i will be like my mother lives alone and have problems with my husband .. i used always to have a problem with my decisions even after i made them i always feel Penitence about by the way i am first year student i do not know even if i am studying and if it is the the right thing i do not know how to know if being with this man is the best thing for me or what !!by the way he is a very good man


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Posted 2008-06-05T12:03:32Z
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I don't know if this is your first real relationships or not, but if you're relatively young and this is one of your first  love, you may be falling under the category of too good too soon.

I can't really tell you what to do, I just think you should be more than half way certain this is a person you want to spend your life with. You can never be a 100% sure, but you should be pretty positive you would like to grow old with him, and that he grows old next to you too. 
Posted 2008-06-17T07:08:48Z
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Hi Suzana,

First let start by saying, you are not your mother.  Just because she had problems do not mean that you will.  No one can guarantee you that this relationship will or will not work.  But before you make the decision to marry this man, learn more than what he tells you.  Meet him, preferrably not alone.  See not just with your eyes, but also with your heart.  Take someone with you who can and will look truthfully at things that you can not see; let that be someone that you trust their opinion. Take it slowly, what's on paper may be different in person.  

Having the same religion could be good, but having the same religion does not necessitate the same belief.  So be very careful.  He may not be as faithful to his belief as you are.  Watch everything! Good luck!
Posted 2008-09-25T01:49:00Z
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