Hi Grace, your doctor only gave you 2 choices, well please allow me to suggest a third option.
Once you have been diagnosed with cancer, you can either follow the established medical advice and treatment options or you can talk to the man who already cured his own stage 4 cancer.
And, surprise, he is a doctor also.
Please confer with Dr. Kelley Eidem before you make any decisions. It can't hurt, it can only help you. There are a myriad of alternative methods available with less side effects than most traditional medicines.
I hope this helps.