Is it okay for my husband to be talking to his ex wife almost daily?

I beleive that she should not be calling him all the time. she has no business calling him. I would not allow this H e should let her know that her calling is not fair to you. She needs to call her own family if she needs someone to talk to.

NOT OK! She is using him and he's letting her.so....there is more to it .I understand when kids are involved it gets complicated but THEY are in turn using the kids as pawns.Kids are not stupid they must know he dosent live with them and he has a new life.THEY need to move on too the kids will be fine. it is so manipulative of her , selfish and disrespectful to you.tell your hubby to send a b-day cards and to stop his affair

Have you and your husband considered seeking custody of the children?.. maybe you and your husband should have a talk about taking the children .. I don't know who has custody or if it is joint custody ... but if it is joint I guess they are fine..

I myself understand what you are feeling .. that makes no sense and it seems since her relationship is rocky she is trying to weasel her way back into his life.. women can be malicious and I am sorry she is not being honest but rather deceptive.. she is obviously jealous of you and is trying to make you turn into the woman she is which will turn you against your husband.. You come first before she does and she should not be having control on when she is calling him.. what he should do is put a stop to her conversation when it begins to steer to her own personal problems .. the only concerns should be the children and not what is going on with her.. he should not be telling her what she wants to hear because that is giving her the wrong messages and she feels she may have a chance with him... you both as a married couple should start putting your foot down.. record calls because when that foot comes down she is going to act up and at least you have proof.. please do not let this scorned woman disrupt your unity.. marriages can work even if your partner has children with someone else.. he has to be the bigger man and cut her off from personal convos and it should be more directed at the well being of his children.. stop it now before it is too late.. and if he winds up going that route.. at least you know you are a better woman.. only dogs turn around and suck on their own vomit.. be blessed and stay strong!

Hi, ------ You entered a very complicated situation. The whole situation is not healthy (not to say weired) and will prevent the two of you to build a normal family. It is NOT OK, and you should NOT accept it ! (I think it is NOT normal). I don't believe you'll be able to solve it on your own and an ultimatum is not a good idea so the only thing I would recommend is get a proffesional counseling (both of you) in a true attempt to find a satisfying solution (satisfying to all, including the children, and above all will enable you to create a normal family). ------ Best regards,

I believe that you both should attend marriage counseling.

I dont think she should be calling him like that. Ever once in a while is ok or if the kids are hurt or something. But asking for advice bout her problems I think his kinds crazy my self cause he poly has his own problems to deal with and dont need her adding to it. Also if she is bout to get married again shouldnt that be her i best friend? To me that is who she should be talkin to bout this stuff not your husband. I would tell my husband how I feel than would tell her and let it be known you are not mad that they talk you are upset that she thinks she needs to talk to him every day and he dont.