Two thumbs up DB Lady!!
It is perfectly okay, natural, and necessary that you be who you are. It is not necessary to put a label on it. All of us are simply sexual creatures. We are not gay, lesbian, or straight. The only 'rules' are those made by society, and the majority of those rules are made because of fear.
We are all creatures of the earth. We all have a right to be here, and be who we are. This 'being' does not involve violation of any kind. Be free and learn to love without fear.
With Kind Regards,
Daniel