I found out my 19 year old sister was molested when she was a kid, no one else knows, i found out by accedent , i dont know what to do, she dosent want my parents to know, what should i do? Help!!!!
tell your parents or don`t,sooner or later they`ll find out.they`re here 2 take care of u and help u.
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How is your sister handling this-is she in therapy, did she just find out herself and haveng trouble with it how are you worse off then she is. I ask and i am far from a psycology degree this stuff takes a long time to heal. Go to a therapist if u r not already. The truth does come out sooner or later, better sooner. But thats up to your sister just be a good support and you need her support right mow also.
here latly ive been hearing about women all over the place being molested, my wife recently told me she was molested when she was 15. all you can do is be there for them and suport them. even though if your like me and want to hunt the sob down and hang him high in a tree, use patience and stay within the law
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Unless she is a danger to herself or others, you have NO RIGHT to gainsay her wishes. As an adult she has the right to make her own decision regarding the abuse.
The best thing you can do is to seek therepy for yourself to deal with this info,and extend an open invitition for her to come along.Let her know that she can reach out at any time to you.you could also give her a list of local hotlines for this sort of thing.But she is an adult now and you dont want to compound the damage done to her with a breach of trust on your part...it is up to her to deal with it in her own way and up to you to support her with whatever that is.Dont make her feel she is obligated by your discovery to take action-but if she wants to let her know you will back her up.
talk to her first and let her know you found out. my sister found out about what happened to me also, but all i was wanting was someone to talk to, and she was there to talk. it wont be easy to make her admit to it, it's kina embaressing to admit that someone molested you. i'm still dealing with it every moment i see him, and there's always a constant reminder that there might never be anything done to fix it, just be her supporter, and love her no matter what
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