Can i be gay and be married?

if yur trying to be married to a gay guy no

Of course you can be gay and be married. Many people are married, for one reason or another, and are attracted to the same sex. It's not necessarily fair to your spouse, so I suggest to make a choice - either stay in the marriage and be faithful (and possibly miserable) or follow your heart.

Yes. I didn't understand Buck's answer but I knew a guy that married had a son and was totally gay and is living now happily with his boyfriend. Love the guy and his guyfriend but me being hetro I don't understand it. But it could have been through your upbringing that you denied yourself. Now if you just want to take a walk on the wild side at the expense of your wife then shame on you. I have a 2 year old Grandson and I am like what if he turns out gay. Well I will still love him and I know his Mom will still love him but his dad will dis own him and his other grandfather will want to kill him. He will always be my baby. I just feel sorry for your wife. She didn't ask for any of this.

Oh come on, you're not that stupid! You're bi-sexual. now get a divorce before more damage is done or get help and "straighten up' I hope you don't have any children,image them finding out the truth, how disgusting and harmful that would be to them, unless you're really stupid and believe it's "ok 2 B gay". Some will deceive you telling you so, however God says differently. Please people, don't be mad because I'm on Gods side, remember, I to have to answer to Him and I don't believe I'm smarter then Him, so I just agree with whatever He says. To have a different answer then Him is saying one doesn't matter what God says!

Well if you want to really marry my daughter you better staighten up your act.If you want to be gay forever then let her go.You need to decide what is important to you,Is it her or the fact that you cant stop thinking about men.You truely make me sick,it was ok for you to be gay but now that you brung my daughter into this mess then  it makes me mad that you would even question this.So that means you are still gay.Maybe you all shouldnt get married. I dont want you to destroy her life. You second guessing this the month before you get married only shows that you dont love her.Should I tell her what you are thinking? Maybe I will. I think you thinking guys is cute is ok but questioning the fact that you should marry her or thinking about being with other men instead of her is just wrong so maybe this wedding should not happen.She does not deserve this and you know she doesnt.She is a good person.So you should let her go.She can do better then being second best in your life.