First you must reestablish communication with him. You must decide the best way. It could be a simple phone call or maybe it would be a written note expressing your feelings and your desires. The first contact should not have blame in it, but a sincere expression of sorrow for leaving and asking if he is willing to talk to you about your marriage. If he is very angry it may take some time for him to cool down and for him to want to talk to you even if he does love you and will want to talk with you. If that is so, give him some time. Assure him you made a mistake in haste and you are sorry. You take it from where he is. If he is willing to talk, you may continue on and work things out. Follow the way things go. Since he is the one at home, you could go by and see if he will answer the door. Think it through. If you are religious people you may consider offering to go to your religious leader for counseling, but that would turn some men off. Use your best judgement. You know him and think about what king of person he is and what he might respond to and what would turn him off and take your best shot. If you really love this man you must reach out to him and not waste time to give him time to turn to someone else. God bless you and may it work out.
