how can a pill snorting ex get custody of my daughter after she abandoned her at my house for 3 weeks while she lived with 3 people with hepatitis c for three weeks. then the judge orders a drug test which she failed? now I'm 4 or 5 thousand dollars behind in child support even though I've paid it. also, how can she just say that I owe her money for x amount of months and with no proof they say "yes, he does" what is wrong with our judicial system?