Could you please instruct me how to "tap into my exes Social security"? I was married for 12 years, got divorced and became disabled RSDI. My ex still works (didn't much while married) and I am stuck trying to get by on around $1000/month from Social Security. If Icould increase that at all, it would really help. I doubt my ex would care (we have a child together), but all in all if I could learn how to apply for this, I would prefer she would not know of it. Please help. Sincerely, David Highum