Sammie,
No one wants to be mean to you. And no one wants to ignore you.
But, EVERYTHING HAS ALREADY BEEN SAID!
Suck it up and have the damn test or don't. It's your call.
Meanwhile, the rest of us are not without problems in our lives.
Some people are in lousy relationships. Some people are in great relationships, but separated by distance. Some people have lost their homes, or their jobs. Some people have children with special needs. Some people have medical issues of their own, or family members with medical issues.
You are not the only one in the world who has fears, worries or problems. Get over yourself and grow up, please. Thank you.
