Janissa 10; yes, I also have the identical 'dream/experience'.
my wife, Rita, died in 1987 after a long 7 yr- 'breast cancer, masdectomy, good oncologist reports, relaps, etc. we were devoted. .... a cut-short marvelous journey.
I never was sure whether the 'dream messages' - like yours... brief & intrapersonal.... continuing w/ regularity today as then occurred in my dreams or a brief awakening. unlike yourself I have rarely discussed them or even wondered as to their source. I JUST ACCEPT THEM ! i remain the....
bartman