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My daughter is a lesbian. By the way, we have no ...

My daughter is a lesbian. By the way, we have no problem with this. The problem is she has been in an extremely bad relationship for 3 years. The woman she is involved with is a drug addict, bisexual, bi piolar and unfaithful. This woman comes from a family where drug addiction is the norm (including her parents and siblings) and her husband committed suicide by an overdose. This woman also has two young sons that my 21 year old daughter has grown very close to. Since being involved with this woman, my daughter has gone so downhill. She dropped out of high school, has been arrested for marijuanna possession, is on anti depressant medication and anxiety meds.She also has a warrant for her arrest for marijuana in another state which is her 3rd charge.We also know that she has participated in other types of drug usage with her partner. We have tried many times to intervene. We even moved her out of state so that she could move forward with her life, finish school and get beyond this relationship. But she can not change for some reason. We found her growing marijuana in her room, she was fired from her job after being injured and failed the workman compensation mandatory drug test, we found out she was buying liquor for minors, and she lied to us and went back to the state we moved her from to visit this woman. She has been here for 6 months and we no longer know what to do. Should we just let her go back to this situation that she seems to want so badly or just keep trying to provide an environment for her away from this relationship?


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The fact that she's a lesbian really has nothing to do with the problem, which would be just as screwed up as if she was straight and with a guy that was as much of an asshole as her partner seems to be. This woman is obviously giving her something she wants. Unfortunately, everything else that goes along with it seems to be rather harmful to her. Sadly, there's not really a lot you can do. I know it hurts but she's an adult with the right to choose her own life. She's obviously made a bad choice, but love can do that to you. I'm sorry I can't give you better advice, but all I can say is hang in there and watch carefully. If she gets in serious trouble, try to be there for her. And it does seem to me that she is heading for serious trouble.

Posted 2009-09-28T18:45:58Z
 
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Turn off the television and teach your children how to think.

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I agree.

Sometimes all you can do is step back and let her learn life's lessons the hard way.

Tell her you love her, but don't enable her or allow her to manipulate you.

Then just step back, wait for her to hit bottom, and be prepared to deal with the aftermath once that happens.

I'm sorry you have to go through this. I know you're worried sick.

Take care,

jkgrandma

Posted 2009-09-28T18:53:17Z
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Intervene and send her to a rehabilitation facility. Convince her to be clean, make her realize that her life has gone out of control and that you only want the best for her. She needs your support, she might ask you to leave her alone but deep inside, she's tired of her destructive routine.

Posted 2009-09-30T08:29:52Z

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