Threesome/ 2 girls and 1 guy

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If your imagination is so poor that you need help, the Kama Sutra, would be a good place to start.

Before you do this, however, I would urge you to consult your owner's manual. You will find that it gives you the same advice as J; do not do this. If you choose to ignite 100 gallons of gasoline, there is no turning back. Even if you do decide that it was a bad idea, the deed has been done.

Above are some suggestions as to how to spice things up.

Jay

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Well, if you ask a question; you're going to get answers.

And they won't always be answers you'll like.

Furthermore, you know nothing about me nor about my sex life. As it happens, I have had threesomes in the past (though with me and two men, not another woman) and they were the most boring and unfulfilling experiences of my life.

Many years later, I am in a satisfying relationship of more than 10 years - with the same man, and only that man - and we don't need any extras to spice up our lovemaking.

My BF says I am still as beautiful now as the day he first saw me - and that I turn him on no matter what I'm wearing or what I'm doing. If that's not enough to make me nuts about him, I don't know what is.

Honey, don't use the excuse that you want to "spice up" your sex life to explore a hidden facet of your personality.

If you've always wondered if you may be lesbian or bisexual, then just get a divorce and then, once you're single, have sex with anything that moves.

You'll have as much "spice" as you can handle and your husband can go on and find a woman who will love and treasure him - and just him.

Everybody wins.

If you already know what you want to do, then why did you ask the question?

Most people don't feel the need to announce their sexual appetites or experiences to the world.

For God's sake, if you and your husband want to have sex with someone or something else, just do it and be done with it.

You don't need a friggin' instruction manual, just start it and then carry on as the occasion suggests. You've got eyes, hands, a mouth - use them!

(I'd say use your brain, but that's obviously a lost cause.)

Your aggressiveness and self-defensiveness belie your claims of being secure with yourself. When I find this attitude in people, I am inclined to compare thiem to a computer without a keyboard or a mouse.

And what happens when the menage a trois needs spicing up?

I am quite salty after sweating. I have been told that I am sweet. I have been called a sourpuss. Butt bitter? I think not.

I think that I had better leave before I get post off.

Here is you chance to go  postal.

Jay

oh wow... you said:

-you satisfy your husband

-your husband satisfies you

-you are not a lesbian or bi

Then there's no reason to seek outside parties for sex period. 

It opens the door to many problems like jealousy and sexually transmitted diseases.  What happens if the girl pleases him more than you do and he's knocking on her door the next day ready to move in? lol  What if he gets her pregnant?  There's always a chance of it.

And your question of "What do I do?" in regards to having another woman and man in bed... well watch some porn and do what they do if you must.  I would think that would be common sense over asking people on Yedda lol.  I have a feeling your post was to get attention and spark, nothing else and now you're butt hurt nobody is talking dirty with you.