hey! ok, well.....i was asked to sing at my ex-boyfriends school.(we broke up about a month ago) i wrote a song about him, and i am debating if i should sing it or not. he was a complete jerk to me, and the words to the song are a bit harsh. if i dont tell anyone that i wrote it about him, is that still considered mean? i want him to know how i am feeling, without me having to tell him straight out. is it too mean to sing about him?