Every woman and every set of parents must make their own choices when faced with devastating news such as this.
It is wonderful to see the love this family shares and I am sorry for the pain they must endure along with that love.
However, if it were me and I knew my child would be born with that condition, then I would elect to have an abortion.
That is because I do not believe I could successfully deal with something like that and I do not believe in having a disabled child and then handing that child off for adoption or worse (foster care, etcetera).
My life, my choice. One I would not make lightly, and one I would never know for sure I would choose until faced with that situation.
Fortunately, I am 53 and no longer able to have children so I am not faced with that choice.
But again, if I were, then it would be MY choice to make.