Possibly something there between myself and my boyfriends best friend

Hi Blonde Bum ,   After reading this question and your question a few months back where you considering having sex with a guy at the gym , I feel there are problems in your relationship with your Boyfriend .  When a woman loves a man she does not have thoughts of being with other men .  Something is lacking in your relationship , your needs are not being met therefore you are seeking attention from other men , you are bringing in outside interference in to your relationship .  You are committing emotional infidelity .  I think you need to take a good look at your relationship and be honest with your BF .  If you decide to stay with him you need to tell him what you need from him to be fulfilled . Please don't even consider marriage with this man till you do some soul searching . This friend of his is not the first guy you have had these thoughts about . If your BF is in tune with you as he should be , he's going to sense something to not right and he's correct something is not right . Again if you love him and are happy with him you'd not be having the feelings and thoughts you are having about other men .  I wish you the best .

Hi Blonde Bum , Has your boyfriend seen a DR lately is he healthy , on any medications , under alot of stress on the job ?  We as Women turn down  flirtatious Men everyday because of the man we love  . Good solid relationship must have communication , trust , fidelity and respect .  Intimacy is a direct reflection of the state of your relationship .  Your needs are not being met , you need to communicate this to your Boyfriend . I am quite concerned that your emotional infidelity will turn to physical infidelity and destroy your relationship if this is not addressed . You can't expect your Boyfriend to do what you want and need if he doesn't know what you want and need . He can't read your mind .  Don't approach him in a negative manner by telling him he doesn't satisfy you anymore .  Guide him , show him where and how to touch and kiss you to stimulate you mentally , emotionally and physically .  Give him the chance to satisfy you again . Take the lead show and tell the Man you love what you want and need from him  . You may very well get a pleasant surprise . I wish you both the best .