Since I was 11 ( I am now 19) i have loved one of my closest friends brother. We all grew up together. He and I wrote childish love letters when we were young but because I was an artist/musician and he a football player nothing ever happened. For a long time he has been with cliche tall blonde athlete girls but I know that he always still thought about me....but then again he never even tried to ask me out. We just grew apart as friends. I have moved away from my hometown but I what I need to know is if I should go back and see him again because he is now single. His sister is getting married and I could go back for the wedding and finally tell him how I have felt all these years...but there is a huge chance i could be totally rejected...should i take the chance even though that might happen??? I have never been the sappy type of girl that mopes about guys... im usually very independant and dont believe in soul mates and true love... but should i take the chance???Help!!???