Ok people i have a question. Its been bothering me ...

I think that you need to move on and find someone else. This cycle which he does rreminds me of the cycle of abuse, where they promise to change, but they are never going to change. I know probably how hard it is for you to forget him, but obviously he forgets you. He see's you as less a priority, he probably isn't cheating on you but being sucessful is more important than a relationship. Obviously he isn't ready to take a charge of being in a relationship, and if you guys had sex, he probably uses you as an object. Even if you haven't had sex, he probably still using you as an object to make him seem as though he isn't single or that he has a psychological cycle where he might want to feel loved and so he turns to you.  But seriously you need to move on and so does he, keep the relationship as a friend, because he might need someone.

Cheeto, most of the people asking for advice already know the answer. Just imagine one of your girlfriends is telling you what's written (in italics) below and she's asking for your advice;

"Its been bothering me like HELL.!"

"im getting tired of his bullshit.!"

"I mean we are always arguing non stop and we are also always breaking up. bt i always think to myself why do i wnt to be with him if he never wnts to spend time with me.?"

"why do i even bother bt the reason why we are always getting back together ... and like a dummy i believe him."

" ... i told you i ws going to change..."

"... i havent seen him for 2 1/2 weeks and he doesnt even bother 2 days past and he doesnt care."

" ... hes also sooooo boring on the phone he never wnts to talk about anything,."

" ... now its like i dont know him,"

" ... he is just probably one of those guys whos tired of the girl but on other hand doesnt want anybody else to have u..." (and this is from your mother???)

and well idk what to do guys,?

I need serious help.!

" ... he claims im too childish.and i told him well GO FIND SOMEONE WHO ISNT CHILDISH! and he said he would ..."

WHAT DO I DO PLS HELP?

When you answer this question from your pretend girlfriend, you'll know what to do and without any help from us well intentioned folks here at yedda.

From reading your post, I conclude that neither of you are mature enough for a lasting relationship. There are too many pettty things the two of you can't seem to get by. You write like you are young and this might be your first "big romance". I would tell both of you to discontinue this romance or argument untill you are older and have better views on what is important and what's not. Somewhere down the line if it's meant to be, it will be, if not chalk it up to a bad experience. Life will go on and get better with age and maturity.

Sounds like your mom is as stupid as you are. Why ask this question when you know what to do?

Sounds like he's tired of your BS too. You have no right to get mad at him for not spending time with you b/c he has to work. It would be different if he was neglecting you b/c he's out with the guys or going to strip clubs or cheating, but the guy is trying to make a living and you're giving him shit about it. If you think he works too much, find someone who works less hours. Frankly, I think you are being childish. You need to learn to communicate better and not break up the second something doesn't go your way. People have to work to make money b/c money makes the world go around. That's just the way it is.

Okay you know what? He seems like he has the ability to be great. You know? So just...talk to him. Sit him down and say "You know what? I need you to be here for me. I'm a woman I like to get dressed up and go out! And there are plenty of other guys out there who will treat me right. You have a gift here you know? You have a treasure. Take me out sometimes! And I also can't go through a relationship of disappointments. If you say you're going to take me out, do it! Don't just kick me to the curb. I'm not childish I just need you to know I'm here and I have needs too. So money makes the world go round, so what? Maybe you should get another job that has you always away because I can tell you right now no one wants someone like that. If you really don't want to be with me, break up with me, because I'm not going to force you to be with someone you hate." Just say that to him because I promise you, if he loves you and he wants you he'll remember this. Sit him down where there aren't distractions though, like your kitchen, not at dinner, where he can just look down at his food and block you out. Okay? Hope this helps!