If you don't go the shaving route, try conditioning, but, leave the conditioner on. Don't rinse it off. I do this with my hair and it makes a huge difference.
I use Pantene products for curly hair and then after towel drying it, put Pantene Moisturizing Hydrator on, work it through the hair and leave it.
Oh, and shampoo and put the regular conditioner on and comb it through before rinsing. After you put the hydrator on, do not comb or brush the hair. Just let it dry naturally.
