Lying and Cheating, Good or Bad?

i sincerly tell you that once a cheater always a cheater.you shouldnt trust someone who lies or cheats on you.because once you know she did it you will be thinking of it all the time and the relationship would be built in lies and no trust.so i feel moving on is best for you.someone i was with cheated and lied to me and i moved on.i figuered if he did it once he would do it over and over again.

You know the answer to this already.   Forget her, and start looking to yourself for happiness and fulfilling life.  Happiness comes from within, not others or material objects.  And while traveling along that path, you may happen upon someone who is worthy of you.   Put yourself into your work, go join some clubs, or go back to school.   (or do more in school if you are still in school).   Love happens when you're not looking for it.   Good Luck.

If I were you, I'd pull myself away from this woman.  She, in my opinion, has shown her true colors more than once.  You are too smart to continue being lied to like this.  Get out now.  Find a woman who will treat you better than this.  MY opinion:  This woman does not love you and only you.  It's so obvious.  Good Luck.

She needs help from a qualified professional. You could use a little help, yourself.

She needs it because she's an habitual liar and she may have some addictive behavior issues. You need it because you continue to want to be with someone who behaves in such a manner; also because you saw nothing wrong with stooping to her level (lying and cheating) in order to trap her in an outright lie.

I agree that this relationship is over - or should be -  but if the two of you are so stuck on each other as to insist that you have a shot at making it work; then for heaven's sake, start couples counseling immediately!

That's 1 of the reasons i never remarried for you have nothing if you don't have trust. Anybody that cheats is not in love. You sound so nice i can't imagine anyone doing that to you. Forget her, but don't move on to someone else on the rebound. I know myself it would hurt badly if i knew i was 2nd best. I couldn't take that. I guess i'm just kind of old fashioned. I believe in true love. I was married twice. Had 2 sons with the 1st. Was only 17 so i didn't know what love was but i was still faithful until i left 6 years later. My 2nd husband was a total monster. Thought he was  the king. I'm sure he cheated but honestly i didn't care for i divorced him 6 years later as well. Left town and never looked back.

wow, I feel for you here.  She needs help, psychological help pronto.  She is on a path a self-destruction if she met at man at a (male?) strip club and promised to have sex with him and does so behind a tree in broad day-light?????  That is a pretty drastic case of what seems to be a narcissistic personality and this will never change without therapy.  She has no remorse, regret or accountability for her actions.  I feel terrible for her too cause she is in trouble mentally.  Try to steer her to get help but I would definitely try to let this one alone after that.  You deserve happiness.  Absolutely.