in tx what constitutes child abandonment? my youngest daughter has stayed with her fathers parents while i work 2 jobs, i call and visit and keep her on my days off as much as i can. i have arranged daycare and have always told them i have someone to watch her, and their reply has always been, no just let her stay here it will save you money and we love to spend time with her. i failed to mention her father was incarcerated for 4 months. now his parents are trying to gain sole custody on the allegation of abandonment, although the child and both parents and child from previous relationship all lived together as a family for the past 3 months. recently split up, we were never married. i have always worked and supported the family for the 5 years we have lived together.,, what is your take on this mess