I dated a christian who is very active in church.He is 60yrs.old and i'm 63....he said he loved me and proposed marriage...I told him i would not be intimate with him till we were married .... he dumped me a few days later and gave me several lame excuses. He said i am a wonderful woman and treated him better that any lady ever has...I feel i was dumped for abstaining from intimacy. Am i wrong to respect myself and my future husband even if it's not this man?..Am i out of touch with the times?....I have been divorced for 18 yrs.