Ex gf confused .. wants me back ... wat should i do ?

You both need to quit the game playing.  If you want to get back with her, you really need to sit down face to face and talk, and to discuss where your relationship is and where it's going.  If you don't want to get back with her, you need to let her know that also.  Good luck.

I agree with the above answer. What can you loose if you get together with her and talk.

I am actually going thru the "no contact" thing right now also. It is hard, but it has to be done!!! You need to stick with it and not pick up her calls or answer her texts, etc and you also dont call/text her. I was reading a great article on ehow.com, they have tons of articles that you can check out that give u advice and tips on how to get over an ex and things like that. I actually got alot of helpful tips from some of the articles and I have been strong sticking to my guns and not calling/texting this person, I even use the tips on other men in my life and ignore thier calls/texts too...trust me, it gets better and easier with time!!! BUT, if you want to be with her you really need to sit down and think about this because I truly believe everything happens for a reason, and maybe you two arent together because you arent meant to be and you arent meant for eachother. Its up to you in the end of course but life is too short to go back to a relationship that wasnt/doesnt work. I wish you the best with whatever you decide to do!!

Always remerber an EX is called an EX for some reason but it sounds to me as if her mother is your problem as there is always a chance if you still care about her. But get rid of her boyfriend first then have a dinner some where you can talk open anf freely about how you each feel about each outher get down to the facts. Then make up your minds as wheather it will work you and her have to make this call it may or maynot that all depends on what the two of you want then go from there as it takes time to make a relationship talk it out just you and her and dont let her mother rule. As this is 1 reason she could not talk to you yes i had that problem with my first wife but we were married over 20 years till she passed away.

I am a mother of 3 adult children. Two are men. My oldest who is a wonderful man in every way has already been through a divorce and now must share his children with his ex. who lives about 2 hours from him. I did not know all that I thought I did when they got married. She believed in Chrystals and Faires, my son is a born again Christian and thought he could change her. She is a die hard Democrat, he is a Conservative Republican. They both are exceptionally very good looking people. He didn't tell me the truth until after the divorce. He knew if he had come to me and told me the truth about her, I would have advised him to not marry her. People can't change other people. It may appear so, but it is only on the surface. My youngest son who is 27, an attorney with a very prominent firm in Washington, D.C. and has had several serious relationships but he has been the one to end each of them. I have told him, and you need to hear this, look at her parents and their dinamics and their faith, if any, is Mom the ruler of the home in everyway or is dad, or is it shared. Take a long hard look at her mother, because as much as we hate some of the things about our mothers we often turn out a lot like them. My ex. did not turn out like his dad, but his granddad on both sides of his family. So you might even need to meet her grandparents or get a lot of information about them if she ever spent a lot, like months or every weekend with them. How do you feel really when neither of you are talking and just spending time together doing different things in the same room? If you decide to go back with her, it doesn't automatically mean she will leave you again, but if there wasn't enough of that "special something' to keep her faithful once, down the line it might happen again. Not definitely, but possibly. How old are you, what is the rush? You need to know and believe that you are just as important as she is no matter how gorgeous you may think she is now. And if she is beautiful, she needs maybe a steady, but a lot of guy friends to verify that she is still very desirable. Does she have baggage from her home life, or other boyfriends? It is hard being alone, especially when you are younger, but it is no picnic after 50 either. But I would rather be single than having someone who tells me what I can and cannot do. Good luck, PLEASE really think this through. Your goal in a relationship is that when and if you Marry that it truely is for better or worse. Worse can mean a lot of things. How old are you?

“Get your Ex back is an Opportunity, If you Allow it”   – Ankur Sancheti

“Farther we go, closer we come”  – Ankur Sancheti

How do you see a break up? A life shattering event or as an opportunity? What? You said, an opportunity? Yes, you hear it right. get your ex back is an opportunity for you to be one together and this time,  there will be more bondage. I see a break up when there is a mismatch into the he frequency, in other words, we say, lack of understanding causes break up or losing  your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend.

The biggest stopping in getting your ex is personal biases and past bad experiences and as will all know in law of attraction, what we attract we get more of it. And such biases and the past bad experiences are nothings but the obvious hurdle for you to get your ex back. In my law of attraction forum, I have members, who say they want to get their ex back because they still love their ex boyfriend or the girlfriend, but even a thought of it remained me of the bad past experience and guess what? They become like, “I want it, but at the same time, I do not want it”. In such a case, how will the mystical secret Law of Attraction will work for you?

Ok, I ask you, Give me $1 and at the same time, do not give me $1? Huh… Ankur are you crazy, how it can be done, I am confused. If you feel confused and undecided then imaging how the Universe will respond you, it will be as confused as you are.

”There is nothing like lil bit pregnant”.

You want it or you do not want it. And if you want your ex back in your life, just let go of all past bad experiences and biases. And just see the best coming out of life.

As I said earlier, break up or losing love caused by the miss-match in vibrations or frequency (understanding), which is why, I suggest that getting your ex back is an opportunity. Its all how you see at things, they can be disappointing at the same time they can be seen as an opportunity. This is what I call, “Alternate Perspective”. And it’s so wonderful.