Well, maybe this is a better idea. Maybe, just maybe, if the guy who is the "best financial candidate" wouldn't be poking around a loose woman, he wouldn't find himself in such a situation now, would he ? I mean, come ON ! If a woman is cheating on you, you KNOW it ! How could you not ? If you're in touch with her and with her feelings instead of just poking around, you would know. If you ARE just poking around, well then, tough cookies for you ! You played with fire and you got burnt. Deal with it !