okay ive got some confusion on how to feel or even what to do about an imparticular situation.my kids mother and i have been on a rocky level now for about 5 months and it just seemed to be smoothing out.they r 1800 miles away and i just got home from visiting them.i had plans on moving out there when i am able to.parole being the reason i am unable to at this time.well she just told me she is extremely worried. when i asked bout what she wouldnt tell me. i had to pry it out of her.finally she told me she is concerned bout the results of an aids test tomorrow. i say well if u havent done n e thing to make yourself succeptable then y all the worry?this is when she told me (hesitantly)that back in nov she had been "raped".i dont know whether to believe this or not but because of the disappointment,hurt,anger,frustration,curiosity and i can go on and on i need help on what i should do.y wouldnt she have told me when i went 2 go visit not even 2 weeks ago?we had sex and she exposed me to wut she may have.isnt this unfair?if she had been "raped" wouldnt she have been skeptical bout having sex with me?weve been 2gether 4 4 years and have 2 children.wouldnt/shouldnt she have/feel safe with me around?well she refused to tell me anymore n said she will let me know everything 2morrow.is this just an excuse to either make up a story or just put me off?well i know i may have left out some important things but because i need advice and i needed to let this out but i will be honored to fill in any blanks i jus need some kind of input.i feel like hurting her or him especially if this is true.should i push the issue and have her find this "person"?i am desperately needing input on this. thanx!
