Hey Everyone, just thought I would ask my advice about a problem I recently am experiencing.
For about two years now, I have been dating the same girl. She is sweet, caring, and she really likes me, and I seem to like her as well. But here is the problem. I know another girl, a wee bit older than me, that I seem to have a much better connection with. It seems as if we would be a better couple.
My problem stems from this. The love I can feel in one relationship, I just can't seem to put out. However, that same love and affection that she feels for me, I feel for this other girl that I am not dating, I am afraid of breaking my gf's heart, and yet at the same time this other girl is eating away at me.
It really is a strange feeling. Every night I wonder what it would take for me to let my old gf go, and try to date this new girl. Yet i know that problems would arise. You see, I am only a senior in High school, this girl is going into Sophmore year in college. The problem I have is having her believe that my maturity level is high enough to handle this type of decision. I know this other girl too well to think just asking her out will do anything; she is very stingy when it comes to dating other guys and she will only wait for the perfect moment.
So, my friends, I ask you this simple question. I have a burning passion for one girl, and yet I am dating another I believed to have feelings for but now find that my fire burns stronger for another. What course of action do you believe I should take? Also, keep in mind I have thought about using college next year as an advantage (being a plus one of my higher colleges is the other girl's college right now; the only problem being that girl will be a junior when i am a freshman in college). I was thinking of using that seperation to break off the current relationship, and then starting anew with this new girl. Any suggestsions? Really, i have held this in for long enough.
