ok so i love this guy, i have loved him and have wanted him for along time now. he has told me that i have been more of a sister figure than a girlfriend, i understood so i backed off. well this june he said i have grown into my body and have matured alot, he tells me that he likes me. well that was 2 days before he left for the army. it has been 4 month since i have seen or talked to him, i cant get him out of my head do i wait 5 years to miight get my man or move on to a guy that is sweet to me and i am starting to like?? what should i do?